How To Trust Boyfriend With Female Friends — Bigmatrimonial

Eric Cameron
7 min readDec 23, 2022


How To Trust Boyfriend With Female Friends. Trust is a tricky thing. You can have complete trust in your friends, but the moment you start dating someone, that trust may be challenged. Trusting your boyfriend or girlfriend is important because it’s a sign of commitment and respect for each other. However, trust can also be built on insecurity which makes it harder to develop if you’re constantly worrying about what they’re doing when they’re not with you all the time.

When I was in high school, I dated my best friend for years before he finally asked me out (and even then he wouldn’t admit that he was interested). We were able to build such an intimate relationship because we knew each other so well-but we didn’t just talk about our feelings or listen to each other’s problems-we also laughed together and played practical jokes on people who annoyed us!”

If your boyfriend has a female friend, it is normal for you to be suspicious. You want to make sure that he is not hiding anything from you and that the female friend means nothing more than a platonic relationship. Here are some tips on how to figure out if there is something going on between your boyfriend and his female friend:

  • Ask him about the female friend and make sure that he is not hiding anything from you. Ask him about his female friends and why they are important to him. If there are any signs of deceit or secrecy in his answers, then this could indicate that there is something going on between them other than friendship
  • When talking with other people, ask them if they think the two of them might be seeing each other romantically or sexually behind your back. This can help give insight into whether or not their relationship might be more than just friendship

If you have a boyfriend, make sure that he shares everything with you. If he doesn’t, then there’s probably something going on behind your back. Ask him if he has female friends, and if so, ask him to share everything that they discuss.

Being uncomfortable asking questions or saying no is a sign of insecurity in relationships-and it’s not healthy for the long-term health of a relationship!

If your boyfriend is unwilling or unable to be honest with you about his feelings and his feelings toward other women (especially when those feelings are negative), this may be an indication of an unhealthy relationship dynamic where one person dominates over another through manipulation tactics such as guilt-tripping or withholding information. This can lead down paths toward manipulation which often leads to abuse-a very dangerous situation for any woman who wants more control over her relationships than just being told what someone else thinks should happen next time around.”

If your boyfriend has a female friend who keeps on calling him, then it is best to ask him why? You need to make sure that he is not hiding anything from you. He should also share everything with you.

It is advisable that if there are any doubts or suspicions in your mind, then ask him about it and get the truth out of him.

The first step to finding out if he’s cheating is checking his social media accounts. Social media accounts are great because they give you a glimpse into the world of your boyfriend, as well as allow you to see what kind of relationships he has with others. If you suspect that your boyfriend might not be faithful, here are some things to look for on his social media pages:

  • Checking in with other women at bars or clubs.
  • Pictures from parties where there are lots of people around (but no one else in the picture). This usually means that those photos were taken secretly by another person who was also at the party and doesn’t want anyone knowing about what was going on behind closed doors.
  • Messages or texts sent back and forth between your boyfriend and someone else, especially if these messages include emojis that indicate flirting or sexual interaction (e.g., hearts).
  • Ask him about his female friends.
  • Ask him how much time he spends with them.
  • Don’t assume that he’s cheating on you just because he has female friends, or accuse him of doing so if they’re closer than they should be.
  • Don’t be passive aggressive or jealous when it comes to your guy’s female pals-keep an open mind and don’t let your insecurity get the best of you!
  • Ask him what his female friends are like, and why they’re important to him.
  • How many of them do you know?
  • Are there any that he’s closer with than others? (If so, why?)
  • What do they have in common? Do they like similar hobbies or interests?
  • Think about the types of people who will be around your boyfriend most often-his family members, co-workers, classmates and so on. How many women are among these groups? Make a mental note of it; then ask yourself if there’s anything in particular that makes this number seem unusual to you when compared to how other people live their lives.
  • Don’t be passive aggressive. He’s not going to take your concerns seriously if you’re always being passive aggressive, accusatory, or jealous.
  • Don’t assume anything. If you think he’s cheating on you, don’t assume he is-take him at his word until there’s real proof otherwise.
  • Don’t make assumptions about what their relationship is like just because they’re friends: they could simply be friends who hang out when they see each other at parties, or it could be anything else! Be open-minded and don’t let your own feelings get in the way of seeing things from another perspective.
  • Don’t accuse him of doing something wrong without having any evidence for why this might be true (if there even is any reason for suspicion).

You should trust your partner and his/her intentions.

  • Don’t assume that he is cheating on you.
  • Don’t assume that he is hiding something from you.
  • Don’t assume that he is lying to you.
  • Trust him and believe in his love for you, because if he didn’t love you, he wouldn’t even be with you!

If you suspect your boyfriend might be cheating on you, it’s important to pay attention to his behavior. And if he’s spending a lot of time with his female friends or if there are signs that he’s been distant lately, then perhaps it’s time to ask him about the issue. It could just be that his work schedule has changed and he isn’t able to see you as much as before, but if this is not the case and he does seem distant from you then it may be time for an honest conversation about whether or not he’s having an affair.

  • Be honest with yourself. If you’re so insecure that you can’t trust your boyfriend, then maybe he’s not the one for you and it’s time to move on.
  • Be patient and understanding. Your boyfriend is not perfect and he will make mistakes at times, but if he’s a good person in general then those mistakes should be few and far between — hopefully limited to things like leaving the toilet seat up or forgetting your birthday once in awhile (or every year).
  • Don’t be jealous when other girls are around him; don’t assume that they’re trying to steal him away from you or ruin what you have together (which they probably aren’t).
  • Understand that your boyfriend is human-he doesn’t know everything about everything, nor does he always think before acting out of fear or anger-and this means sometimes he’ll say something stupid without thinking about how it will affect others around them (you). If something like this happens then give him some space until later on when things have cooled down a bit more before bringing up whatever happened earlier today so there won’t be any hurt feelings from either party involved!

Pay attention to what triggers your insecurity.

If trust is an issue in your relationship, it’s best to be aware of the things that trigger that distrust and address it head on.

  • Communicate with your boyfriend. Talk to him about his female friends, and make sure he understands that it’s important to you. Ask him how he thinks they will react to the news that you two are dating, and ask if he thinks they would be jealous or angry. If you have any concerns about secrecy or dishonesty, let your boyfriend know so they can be addressed before they become an issue between the two of you.
  • Don’t be afraid of competition! You might be afraid that these women will try to take away what is yours (and vice versa), but don’t let this stop you from having an open dialogue about what matters most: having a healthy relationship with someone who truly loves and respects both parties involved for who each person is individually — not just as another object in their lives!

If you’re currently dealing with jealousy because of a guy, here are some things you need to start doing:

  • Know your worth. You have to be confident in yourself and know that you are good enough for him. If there is tension or anxiety about something, it’s best not to bring it up during an argument as it will only cause more problems between the two of you. You should also keep your mind busy by being productive at work or with hobbies so that when he does come home from hanging out with his male friends, there won’t be any hint of anger or resentment towards them being present on your end!
  • Be patient and understanding in this situation because we all need time alone sometimes before we can fully open up our hearts again after having been hurt once too many times during previous relationships.”

If you want to be with your boyfriend and trust him, then you need to trust yourself first. If you find that he’s hiding things from you or acting suspiciously, then it might be a time for both of you to reevaluate your relationship.

Originally published at on December 23, 2022.